Audio from Chinese transcript of upcoming WOAC on Air - Coping with Single Parenthood

This is an advance podcast in Chinese and is directed at Chinese women on the subject of Coping with Single Parenthood.

The Following Transcript is from a WOAC ON AIR Broadcast produced by Women of Africa Care in Johannesburg in South Africa. The heart of this edition is as relevant to women in China as well as women in Africa, America, Australia and other parts of the world. The episode concerns ‘Coping with Single Parenthood – Part 1 

The English transcript follows the Chinese in this document and is also released separately. 

 

以下文字摘自南非約翰尼斯堡非洲婦女關懷組織製作的 WOAC ON AIR 廣播。本版的核心內容與中國女性以及非洲、美國、澳洲和世界其他地區的女性有關。 該集涉及“應對單親家庭 - 第 1 部分” 

  

英文文本遵循本文件的中文文本，也單獨發布。 

YALO 直播 – 2024 年 7 月 4 日 

第103話 

非洲女性關懷帶給您的啟發 ________________________________________________________________ 主題：應對單親家庭 - 第 1 部分 

自殺並不是解決單親育兒挑戰的答案！ 

你將自己的生命置於永遠的危險之中，並危及你孩子的命運！ 

自殺就是「自我謀殺」──你不能把自己的生命掌握在自己手中！ 

出埃及記 20.13 不可殺人。 

Duet 5.17 「不可殺人。 

約翰福音 3.16 神愛世人，甚至將他的獨生子賜給他們，叫一切信他的，不至滅亡，反得永生。 

當你考慮自殺時，你實際上是在拒絕基督給你的生命，你沒有接受上帝無條件的愛，因此你認為你的生命毫無價值和微不足道。 

約翰福音 10.10 盜賊來無非是為了偷竊、殺害、毀壞；我來了，是要讓他們擁有生命，並且擁有更豐盛的生命。 

加拉太書 2:20 我已經與基督同釘十字架，現在活著的不再是我，乃是基督在我裡面活著。我現在在肉身的生活，是因信神的兒子而活，祂愛我，為我捨己。 21 我不廢掉 神的恩，義若藉著律法能得著，基督的死就毫無意義了！ e（你所做的任何事情都不能讓你有資格獲得公義，基督的公義是免費的禮物。）當你行在祂的公義中時，你就不再需要生活在定罪、審判或恐懼中，因為是祂的恩典使你能夠走在祂的道路上。 

設定明確的界限，讓孩子不會失去家庭價值觀 

1、應對資金壓力； 

2. 與孤獨作鬥爭，避免陷入錯誤關係的陷阱，以填補空虛；

3.「自我照顧」－在照顧和職業中尋找「自我時間」； 

4. 「家庭時間」－與孩子一起進行優質時間活動，建立聖經基礎和親子關係。

心靈淨化－單親父母面臨的常見壓迫包括：拒絕、遺棄和痛苦，魔鬼利用人際關係中的空虛竊取人們的身份，以阻止他們實現自己的命運。 

 

解決拒絕、痛苦和遺棄的壓迫，這些壓迫給單親父母帶來壓力，從而導致他們生活在束縛中，而不是基督為他們付出的自由 

失去配偶關係後我們需要分娩嗎？ 

污鬼的再來 [太 12.43 污鬼離了人身，就在無水的地方過去，尋求安歇之處，卻尋不著。 44 然後它說：「我要回到我原來的家去。」當它回來時，發現房子空著，打掃乾淨， 收拾得井井有條。 45 然後它又帶了七個比它更惡的鬼來，他們進去住在那裡，那人最後的景況比先前更糟。這邪惡的世代也是如此。 

https://www.curtlandry.com/battle-the-spirit-of-rejection/ 「當我們最擔心的事情成真時，我們很容易相信敵人的謊言。這些謊言是為了讓我們感到壓抑。耶穌來是為了釋放俘虜。只有透過神的靈，我們才能從拒絕的屬靈營壘中釋放出來。拒絕的精神是一種壓抑的精神，它剝奪了你的喜樂與平安。壓迫被定義為「精神壓力或痛苦」。拒絕變成精神上的壓迫是敵人的一種策略，目的是透過情緒或情感來推壓你，阻止你體驗自由和神的愛在你的生活中的存在，這是否意味著神的愛已經離開你了？聖經說神的愛永不止息 詩篇 136.1 你們要感謝耶和華，因為他本為善。 

祂的慈愛永遠長存。 ，是低處的，是別的受造之物。 

因此，你必須能夠辨別你的感受和真實情況。這來自於了解敵人在精神領域所使用的策略。 

以弗所書 3:17-19 

「我祈求你們的愛紮根堅固，能與主的聖民們一起，明白基督的愛是何等長闊高深，並認識這愛是過於人所能測度的。 ——使你們被充滿，達到神一切的豐盛。 

請收聽 7 月 11 日的第二部分，我們將指導您進行內心療癒並從拒絕、遺棄和痛苦中解脫出來，以便您可以擁抱在基督裡的自由。本集包括透過基督耶穌、聖靈和父神作為你成功的伙伴，克服壓迫並過上自由生活的生活經驗。神填補了人際關係中的空白，使你能夠發揮最佳水準！您生來就以最佳水準運作，我們希望幫助您實現這一目標！ 

 

YALO On Air – 04 July 2024 
Episode 103 
Inspiration brought to you by Women of Africa Care ________________________________________________________________ Topic: Coping with Single Parenthood - Part 1  

 

Suicide is not the answer in addressing single parenting challenges! 
You place your life at risk eternally, and jeopardise your children’s destiny!  

 

Suicide is “Self-Murder” - You cannot take your life in your own hands!  

 

Exodus 20.13 You shall not murder.  

 

Duet 5.17 “You shall not murder.  

 

John 3.16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  

 

When you are consider suicide you are actually rejecting the life Christ has given you, you are not accepting the unconditional love of God, therefore you see your life as worthless and insignificant.  

 

John 10.10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.  

 

Gal 2. 20 I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. 21I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!” e (nothing you can do can qualify you for righteousness, it is Christ righteousness that is free gift.) When you walk in His righteousness you were never have to live in condemnation or judgement or fear anymore because it is His Grace that enables you to walk in His ways.  

 

Setting clear boundaries so that the kids don't lose household values  

 

1. Coping with financial pressure;

 

2. Fighting loneliness and avoiding the trap of wrong relationships in order to fill a void;

 

3. “Self Care” - finding "me time" amidst care giving, and vocation;

 

4. “Family Time” -developing quality time activities with your children to build biblical foundation and parent child relationship.

 

Spiritual cleansing - Common oppression single parents face include: Rejection, abandonment and bitterness the devil uses void in relationships steal people’s identity for the purposes of robbing them from fulfilling their destiny.  

Addressing the Oppression of Rejection, Bitterness and Abandonment that places strain on single parents therefore causing them from living in bondage instead of freedom that Christ paid for them  

 

Do we need to be delivered after loss of a spouse relationship?  

 

Return of the unclean spirit [Matt 12.43“When the unclean spirit has gone out of a person, it passes through waterless places seeking rest, but finds none. 44 Then it says, ‘I will return to my house from which I came.’ And when it comes, it finds the house empty, swept, and put in order. 45 Then it goes and brings with it seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they enter and dwell there, and the last state of that person is worse than the first. So also will it be with this evil generation.]  

 

https://www.curtlandry.com/battle-the-spirit-of-rejection/ “When our worst fears come true, we are vulnerable to believing lies from the enemy. These lies are meant to keep us feeling oppressed. Jesus came to set the captives free. Only through God’s Spirit can we be released from rejection’s spiritual stronghold. The spirit of rejection is an oppressive spirit that robs you of joy and peace. Oppression is defined as “mental pressure or distress.” Rejection that turns to spiritual oppression is a tactic by the enemy to push or press you down– through moods or emotions that block you from experiencing freedom and the presence of God’s love in your life Does this mean that God’s love has left you? The Bible says that God’s love will never fail Psalm 136.1Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good.  

 

His love endures forever.] Romans 8.38-39 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, 39 Nor height nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.  

 

Therefore, you must be able to discern what you feel from what is true. This comes from understanding the strategies the enemy uses in the spiritual realm.  

 

Ephesians 3:17-19 
"And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God."  

 

Tune in for Part 2 on 11 July as we guide you on your inner healing and deliverance from rejection, abandonment and bitterness, so that you can embrace your freedom in Christ. This episode includes life experiences of overcoming oppression and living in freedom through Christ Jesus, Holy Spirit and Father God as your partner for success. God fills the void in relationships enabling you to function at optimum level! You are designed to function at Optimum Level, we want to help you achieve that!